It is not about YOU, it is about HER!

Are you still looking for the next best piece of advice as far as "picking up" women goes?

Still trying and testing things out?

Instead of taking the downward spiral all the way to the rock bottom, get some standards instead!

Instead of TRYING to get the girl to like you - just try and find out if the girl fits what you're looking for (and you need some standards for that first and foremost!)

You already know what you don't want and will not tolerate from a woman... if you don't know, sit down, take a pen, a piece of paper and write it all out.

Just GET REAL and STOP taking all kinds of B.S. from women (and anyone in general), or even worse - STOP going out with a sole purpose to "DO" pickup!

Real man doesn't go out to DO pickup - the Real Man is too busy doing things that are worthwhile to him on a deeper level, making a contribution in this world rather than running around chasing pussy.

Stop TRYING to gain the approval from the world. Instead START giving it yourself first, and watch everything around you change.

And once you start adding value to others around you watch your approach anxiety disappear... oh, say what?! Yep, you heard it. I just gave you the cure for approach anxiety (well, the best one of the few).

If you're still not convinced that you're GOOD ENOUGH as you are and you do not need all the fancy 25-step techniques to get somewhere with women, let me quote Stephane (I just couldn't have put it any better or funnier myself):

Seduction is all about replacing one mask with another.

I say you're enough as you are - if you can be vulnerable and genuine, women will come running to you. But only HIGH QUALITY women who are not stuck in lust consciousness. If you want the barbies, you'll need some 'game' because ego is all they know.

When you do "pick up", you can only draw in a lower frequency girl who responds to such nonesense! Look at this crap:

"Pick a number from 1 to 7. you picked 4, am I right?"

"YES!! Wowzers, you rock, Misery!! Do it again, dazzle me!"

Have you noticed, most of the stuff that WORKS really well in the field is fucking STUPID BULLSHIT?

"Hi, my name is Tim, and for the next 5 minutes, you're gonna be my new girlfriend! Let's hold hands now! let's hug!! Oh wait, i have to tell you something: I cheated on you! It just happened, I swear, there was a shark and I rescued this girl, and we just happened to be naked, and next thing you know we slept together!"

^^The above routine will get you more girls than anything else in the world, it's THAT FUCKING GOOD. But what does this say about the consciousness of the girl you will successfully pick up?

Not fuckin' much! She's probably an idiot. Her consciousness is probably not much higher than that of an animal.

To me, I want a girl who is so high-level that I can actually just say, "hey, are you single?" and that should be the only line that I ever need. An intelligent girl will then look into my eyes, and she will either get an intuition that we would be compatible, or not. I need girls who can actually HANDLE me, and my genuine honesty.

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