Do you present the right kind of VIBE around women?

posted by Miso (988 views)

We get asked a lot about what kind of vibe is the best to project around women, how do you really wanna act around them (aloof, disinterested, totally into them, committed, and everything in between are the options), and those who pass through our bootcamps get a first hand experience on what we actually suggest (warm, loving and fun vibe with no attachments and no outcome-dependency)...

But for all of you who can't really make it out to our workshops in person, here's a free bonus... something I just ran into this morning, checking some random videos on YouTube while being woken up by a beautiful woman.

(You know what they say, "Picture says a thousand words"... and if I may add, "Right youtube video says a million words")

Pay attention to the vibe the character in the video gives out... especially in the first half of the clip (first 2 or so minutes) and then read the rest of this post...

Now, if you were paying close attention to the video, you would've noticed how much he comes of as a man who simply loves women, someone who is playful (and it's not a facade of sorts - he truly comes of like that and is most likely like that ALL THE TIME), someone who enjoys a company of a beautiful woman and knows how to make her feel good...

And that's exactly who you should BE if you want to have tons of women in your life adoring you and having you as their source of all things fun!

I did not say, however, that you should BE LIKE him... as that sort of implies that you're not being authentic and are just copying someone (fake it till you make it, anyone?).

What I meant is truly find out, deep inside yourself, all the reasons why you love women, what you find so attractive and beautiful about them, how good they make you feel and why... and when you find enough reasons why you love and adore women, then go out and have some fun - share that with them!

Let them know how they make you feel and why... and then come back here and let me know of the outcomes.

But don't try to fake it or go half-ass about it - it won't work. And no, I won't respect that effort either.

You have to genuinely be that guy for the right results to show up in your life...

If you are still clueless and confused, inquire about our upcoming bootcamps - we might have to meet you in person in order to create that deep level change within your own personality...

P.S. - Now scroll back up, watch that video clip again, and pay attention to the actual lyrics of the song too... needless to say that not only did Philosopher Kings pick the right visual demonstration for this vibe, but they choose their words properly too (in case you're more of an auditory learner, I guess... lol!)