David Deida Experience goes live October 10th!

Hey there,

Miso here. And right now I get a chance to share something special with you...

If you remember, last summer we put together a very unique seminar with David Deida, a first of its kind (it has caused so much commotion and positive change among a lot of people since).

I mean, so many lives have been changed that weekend, and almost everyone who attended gave up the quest of "Pick-Up Artistry", all the shallowness that comes with that, and most have moved on to grow as MEN with purpose in life, attractive character and unshakable confidence around women - the stories we receive from attendees to this day (and their girlfriends) are still mind blowing!

And we have been promising you some sort of recording of that monumental weekend here in Toronto for quite some time now.

Well, guess what - the time has finally come...

David Deida has influenced me (along with thousands others) and shaped our philosophy here perhaps more than anyone else!

His work isn't light stuff or a quick fix of some sort (what most self-proclaimed "pickup gurus" would sell you on in a weekend).

It's incredibly powerful and potent, and has helped me personally create some of the most rewarding experiences with women I have only dreamed of having in the past...

And even though we have attended his week-long intensive retreats, read every single one of his books, often several times, and listened to everything he's ever released, we still get to learn something mind blowing from him every time we cross paths.

His work is a perfect complement to our teachings, and now, for the first time EVER, he has decided to share his ideas and advice in a very personal, comprehensive, year long program called "The Deida Experience", allowing you to really immerse yourself in his work and experience David's extraordinary teachings by phone, by home delivery of his entire classic CD Collection, exclusive live seminar recordings, as well as
new monthly teachings, tele-seminars, access to members-only social network, and VIP access to his sold out Workshop Intensives.

If you have been looking for a way to create ravishment and rapture in your intimate life rather than the mediocrity of most relationships, if you have been looking for a gentle but unrelenting guide to helping you express your deepest offering of love in this world to your family, your friends, your lovers and the world, then The Deida Experience may be exactly what you have been hoping to discover:

http://TheDeidaExperience.com

To get you started in this immersion experience for FREE, the team at The Deida Experience has arranged to give you an hour of David Deida Live, recorded at a recent Intensive, as a thank you for simply considering joining.

To get your FREE hour of David Live please go to

http://TheDeidaExperience.com

and you will be directed to the download page from there.

Over the next few days, if you choose to do so, you will receive detailed information on this extraordinary opportunity to help turn your most dearly held principles into step-by-step practice, and your practice into effortless depth and shared heart-bliss.

As you might know already, David's work is not for the mere c1ub-haunting pick up artist.

It is for men who have either grown tired of that level of communication with women (and that kind of woman!) - or the kind of man who was never attracted to surface living in the first place!

And this program is no different - it is definitely not for the shallow minded, pussy-chasing assholes who have very low respect for women (if you are one of those guys, please don't bother reading further).

It is for men and women who do not want to settle for mediocrity in sex or in intimacy.

It is for those who want to escape from surface contact with women and who are ready to break into new areas of personal mastery, sexual communion and living the kind of unrestrained, unconstricted life such that when you die, you won't regret a moment.

The intention is set high.

How high?

Listen to the preview of what's to come at:

http://TheDeidaExperience.com

I will be a member of this program myself, and look forward to going deeper with it with you as we journey forward toward genuine masculine mastery and deep fulfillment with women...

Meet me over there at:

http://TheDeidaExperience.com

p.s. Registration for The Deida Experience Program will open for 9 Days only, beginning October 10th, after which the doors will close and the program will commence with David's live Tele-Event.

Fundraising Dating Workshop – Sargeathon 2008, Toronto

Listen up... an unbelievable event is about to happen in Toronto just next weekend - July 25-27th!

Both me and Tung have been told about the unfortunate circumstances that our close friend has been placed in, and along with a dozen other friends - local & international experts in the fields of dating, sex and relationships we have decided to throw the most ridiculous bootcamp ever!

It will feature a dozen socia1 and dating coaches, makeover experts, female "sexperts" and a whole lot more over the course of 3 days, and will transform each one of the participants into a much better,
healthier man equipped with unstoppable confidence...

And all that is being offered to you by every single instructor as part of the fundraiser for the greater good - there is a need to make a positive difference in one person's life, and all of the instructors involved will be dedicating their time to you in return for a small donation... forget about all the overpriced workshops, gurus profiting on their fame and whatnot - we're gonna try and make a difference in everyone's life in a noble way instead!

So check out the details about this insane weekend here:

http://sargeathon.com

Line up so far includes Adrian Biccum (from Dr. Paul's camp), Yohan (from Dave M's Internet Dating camp), Tung (our very own), Sean Messenger (from LVO3.com and ex-Pickup101 head coach), and many more are coming up as surprise guest speakers... in total, about 12 different speakers and coaches will storm the city for this event, at the same time - this is a workshop not to be missed!

Here's what our friend Sean Messenger had to say about it on his blog (right after he volunteered whole-heartedly to fly up to Toronto at his own cost and provide his time and help in any way possible to this cause):

21 More Online Mistakes for Men and Women!

In response to a flurry of emails we've received regarding that post on Online Dating Mistakes Women Make, here is some more money (and funny) advice from Wygant himself - the 21 more online mistakes for both men and women:

1. If you are sick, cancel and set up a new day and time. What is up with people who show up with the flu or a bad cold on a date.
2. Make sure that there is no food in your teeth when you show up on the date. Do you remember the scene from Jaws when the shark jumped out of the water when Chief Brody was chumming. Enough said about that.

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Online Dating Mistakes… women make?

So, as I'm chatting about online dating websites with my friend the other day and, well, everything to do with online dating and stupid stuff people do on there, I remember David Wygant's list of 16 mistakes women make on dating websites, and I really have to share it with you guys too - it's funny, pretty accurate and, well, priceless... and girls, you could learn a thing or three from it too, so here it is:

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Dating Tips & Tricks vs. Authenticity

Just ran into another quality article from Brandon over at Yintegrity - highly recommended food for thought:

Dating tips, games and tricks boil down to these things: being aloof, playing hard to get, acting like you have a life, not acting needy, demonstrating value.

Fact is this: these things work. They definitely work with many, many people. The second you throw out a lure of aloofness, most people will jump to bite it.

The deeper you go into these tips and tactics, the more you find they are filled to the brim with fear, weakness and manipulation. Tricks and games are for the weak and manipulative. This is essential to understand. Only out of weakness, fear and neediness can these tricks arise, and everyone is interested in teaching you the tricks! If you take a look to the right of this page, 1/2 of those sponsored links want you to use one trick or another. But using these tricks makes the very real situation as to why you would even consider using them bigger, but now there is a beautiful decor around it. This is an absolute irony.
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A Definition of Inner Game

While hanging out with my friend Johnny Soporno the other night here in Toronto, I remembered something he wrote a while ago (posted on his website too) and I had to re-post his thoughts here because they rang so true...

A whole lot of wanna-be Players, Pick Up Artists ('PUAs'), and Seducers out there have been rushing into the scene in the last year or so, since The Game was released on the unsuspecting public...

It's tragic to watch as these new entrants into our wonderful Game, instead of ACTUALLY becoming Players, become 'Playas'; instead of Pick Up Artists, they become 'Pick Up Technique Zealots' ('PUTZs'); and instead of becoming Seducers, they become 'Womanizers'.

Ironically, although "The Game" is CLEARLY a condemnation of the jejune and hollow lives of most of its participants, an amazing number of people appear to have missed this message, instead only being intrigued by the notion of getting laid by hotter/more/any women.

In an effort to prevent spiritual and psychological decay amongst the people whom this community most stands to serve, I am going to attempt to frame things in such a way as to help neophytes and experienced participants alike to evolve into this gradually, rather than rushing in like proverbial fools.

Here goes...

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Ultimate goal of every Man is… a Woman! Who knew?!

Yea, tell me something I don't know already, you'd probably say, right?

Well, since you asked for it... I will!

Sure, you probably knew (and if you didn't, where have you been?!) that what every man on this planet ultimately desires is a woman... but what about the woman, and what type of woman, and most importantly - why?

Well, according to evolutionary psychologists (who see human nature as a collection of psychological adaptations), as far as men on this planet are concerned, we will do anything to attain power (political, social or any other "valuable to women" type of power) in order to portray themselves more desirable in a woman's mind, and therefore attract as many women into their lives as possible for purely reproductive purposes.

Yes, if you are a woman reading this, that might come of as a totally sexist, immoral or borderline offensive and ignorant thing to say... but even if it is contrary to your ideals and beliefs of what this world is all about, it's true and backed up by scientific research (article here)!

For example, according to the article linked above, "The history of western civilization aside, humans are naturally polygamous. Polyandry (a marriage of one woman to many men) is very rare, but polygyny (the marriage of one man to many women) is widely practiced in human societies, even though Judeo-Christian traditions hold that monogamy is the only natural form of marriage. We know that humans have been polygynous throughout most of history..."

In addition, only a small percentage of alpha males with power of sorts have been able to have multiple wives, girlfriends, lovers and sex slaves throughout history while regular men and "everyday" Joe Blows have had to satisfy themselves with "only" one woman at a time... if that at all (and that's why apparently most suicide bombers are Muslim too! Again, read the article above for a pretty freakin' solid theory on why that is).

So here I am, still thinking about this whole male/female relationship throughout our history and even today, and I tend to agree that most of the violence, wars and frustrating problems in this world can be blamed on women.

Yes, I blame it all on women (don't like it? sue me).

But why?

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Do you present the right kind of VIBE around women?

We get asked a lot about what kind of vibe is the best to project around women, how do you really wanna act around them (aloof, disinterested, totally into them, committed, and everything in between are the options), and those who pass through our bootcamps get a first hand experience on what we actually suggest (warm, loving and fun vibe with no attachments and no outcome-dependency)...

But for all of you who can't really make it out to our workshops in person, here's a free bonus... something I just ran into this morning, checking some random videos on YouTube while being woken up by a beautiful woman.

(You know what they say, "Picture says a thousand words"... and if I may add, "Right youtube video says a million words")

Pay attention to the vibe the character in the video gives out... especially in the first half of the clip (first 2 or so minutes) and then read the rest of this post...

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What True Intimacy Means For A Woman

Here's a great article from Joseph W. South I thought I should share with you...

WHAT TRUE INTIMACY MEANS FOR A WOMAN

Women almost universally say that they crave “Intimacy”. And the world is literally filled with propaganda as to what this means for a woman.

In my opinion, when it comes to sex and intimacy, most men have this completely ass-backwards. I deduce this from two areas:

1. Watching the way society says intimacy should be sought, observing AFCs acting it out, and observing both AFCs and their female partners grow increasingly frustrated. To me, this is an easily observable frame and I see it all the time with couples who are out having a supposedly “intimate” dinner together.

2. Feedback I get from the women I’ve been intimate with. You’ll note that a lot of this feedback, by definition, is not the “sitting around the fire” type of chit chat. It is very verbal in the form of the SEX TALK I get and it is very EXPLICIT.

Attraction + Comfort + Logistics = Sex.

When you hear a woman talk about “intimacy”, consider that she means a real, deep connection with the man at every phase here.

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Interview #4 – AFC Adam London & Sheriff

We've been digging into some of our highly secret recordings with some of our friends we've made in the past few years, and have decided to share with you one of those interviews simply due to overwhelming amount of priceless advice shared!

So, in this one we bring you two of the UK's best Pick Up Artists - AFC Adam Lyons (One of World's Top 3 Pick-up Artists of 2007) and Sheriff (Mystery Method instructor extraordinaire)!

Here are some points we covered in this interview:

• What one character trait will let you win over ANYONE!
• Why EVERYONE has a chance to become one of the best PUA's in the world!
• Adam's one Solid Gold Transition Line that guarantees the smoothest interaction ever
• Adam's most important piece of advice, and how you can use it immediately!
• Sheriff's idea of the perfect date
• A paradigm shift that will change the way you run game FOREVER!
• The mindset of 2 of the best PUA's in the World and how you can benefit from it TODAY!
• One mistake that will devastate your chances with every girl at the bar and how to avoid it
• Insights of their most cherished piece of advice they were ever given!
• And much, much more...

So, without me spoiling it for you by giving out too much, listen in yourself...